Narcissistic & depressive dispositions typically involve contrary disturbances of dignity. The depressive sucks up accusations she ought to repudiate; the narcissist’s moral skew has him allocate blame he ought to own. Both aim to preserve, yet both instead damage, their dignity.
Richard Gipps
The narcissist’s moral skew leaves him vulnerable to a hopeless frustration which becomes its own form of depression. If he can become more realistic about what he is and isn’t owed, & be helped to tolerate & learn from his shame, he’ll find life and others far less frustrating.
Richard Gipps
He’ll then be able to reap the rewards of: truer friendships, the wisdom of patience, and the inner dignity that comes from apt modesty. … Narcissistic psychologists, however, tell patients not that they’re forgivable lovable sinners, but that in fact they’re without sin.
Richard Gipps
This creates a false self-image which has to be endlessly maintained by the kinds of endless undignified othering, smug worthiness, virtue-signalling, allyships, fake morals of the armchair-crusading sort, etc. which constitute the Twittersphere amongst other loci of modern life.
Richard Gipps
Everybody seems to be Pelagians, nowadays 😉 @Ljiljana1972
Konrad Banicki